When it comes to first dates in heterosexual relationships, dating experts agree that the man should pay. It's a gesture of financial security and a romantic way to show interest in the woman. The person who asks for the date usually pays, which is typically the man. In same-sex couples, the same rule applies, with the person who proposes the date paying. While society has changed, many men still feel the need to pay as a sign of financial stability.
When we think of allowances, we usually think of parents giving money to their children. However, in some romantic relationships, financial management resembles an "allowance." Instead of following this outdated terminology, couples can establish a check-in number, where both partners agree on a spending limit before consulting each other. This avoids creating an imbalance of power, promotes communication, and ensures both parties feel valued and respected within their relationship.
"Gray divorce" among Americans over 50 has skyrocketed, especially for those over 65. This trend poses significant financial risks for women, who typically have lower incomes and less savings compared to men. To protect themselves, women should take steps such as:
* Understanding household finances
* Having access to their own funds
* Claiming Social Security strategically
* Saving alimony
* Considering a prenup or postnup that safeguards financial interests if the marriage ends.
